My daughters & I made a last minute decision to go on vacation before school starts again. We’ll be leaving on Friday for Maui. This will be my 3rd trip to Hawaii since my separation and my first to Maui since we split.

It seems funny to me now that early last week I was feeling sorry for my ex-husband and wasn’t as excited to be going to Maui because of the memories I have of our many trips there together. But now, after sitting in on his deposition in our case a week ago I don’t feel anything but disgust for him.

I’m really looking forward to relaxing with my daughters by the pool, snorkeling in the ocean with them, taking them hiking up in the mountains, trying new foods and then coming home again with new memories without him in them. By that time my deposition will be coming and I’ll be refreshed and ready…and looking good in my tan.