One thing is for sure

Hepa and I fight a lot. We’re both very stubborn. We’re constantly arguing over who is right. We must  break up at least once a week. We both have a hard time trusting. We live too far apart and he needs to learn to just nod his head “yes” sometimes and just give in (that seemed to work well for my mom & dad haha).  Sometimes I wonder if we ever do anything right.

But out of all the fights we’ve had, there’s something we do get right and that’s sex.  It’s amazing how in one moment I feel like bashing him in the noggin with my purse full of coins and the next we’re fucking like cave people. I’ve never in my life experienced the intensity we share when we make love. It seems to make us forget all the arguments and name-calling that almost consumes the 5 days every week that we don’t see eachother. Living so far apart sucks. But the sex makes up for it. teeheehee!


When I went away to that funeral in Los Angeles my mom kept my daughter for me and said she would come check on my house and my cat while I was gone. My daughter has a key to get in. Since it’s a key that unlocks the back door, my daughter has to climb over the fence to go around back to let herself in. She told my mom that she would be right back. Once my daughter got inside she heard my mom at the front door already, asking her to open the door. My daughter told her she would be right out, that she didn’t need to come inside too. So my mom starts yelling at her to let her in. My daughter opens the door, plunks her purse (about the size of a small duffle bag and loaded full with enough stuff to last for a weekend getaway) down onto the floor and says to my daughter, “wanna snoop?” My daughter said, “ummm no”. My mom starts heading down the hallway towards my bedroom and my daughter stopped her and told her not to do that. Then my mom turned around and put my mail on my kitchen counter and asked if the cat was ok in a bitchy voice then they locked up & left.

Ok…I haven’t said anything to her yet and I’m not sure I will but WTF??? I am a grown woman and she’s asking MY daughter if she would like to snoop through her OWN house. My mom is a very bad influence and blatently tried to teach my daughter to disrespect me & my space by snooping. I can’t even believe she would ever even consider doing that to me.  I don’t go through my kids things. Maybe someday a NEED will come and I will have to but until then they have a right to some privacy. I don’t understand how my mom could ever think it was right of her to even suggest that. I’m not going to say anything to her until she tries to pull her crap on me. Which happens almost everyday…LOL.