Some people bring good vibes and some people bring nothing but bad.
I try my best to be the type of person that brings good things to the people in my life.
I try to be positive, but I also have to be realistic.
I try to be helpful and I have learned to give my time and effort freely and never expect anything for it in return.
If I borrow from you, I give it back to you.
I might sometimes show up a little late, but if I give you a definite time, I’ll be there at that time. I always make sure you know if I’m going to be late.
I listen. And listen. And listen. I hear your concerns. I give my opinion, and I dont overreact if you dont agree or if you have your own opinion.
I never give ultimatums. If I dont like something that much, maybe it’s time to meet new people.
I dont get angry if you’re late. I find something else to do while I wait.
I dont have the time or the energy anymore to type out long, dramatic, emotional text messages describing every last feeling I have over something you did or said. I’m not about to put anyone through that nonsense. That was teenager crap. I’d much rather send you a “good morning sunshine” text with a picture attached. And I’d rather end the day saying things that make you laugh. Bringing up a negative episode from months before only keeps you stuck in that moment.
Being able to have fun and laugh with a person has positive affects on the libido. It’s just that simple.
You can make yourself sick by being negative. If I’m positive, I dont seem to get sick as often.
Some people just suck the life out of me.
Those people have no business being a part of my life.